5 Steps of How To Make People Care About You And What You Have To Offer
Express a Reason to Care
1) When people have a reason to care for something from self-interest, they express care for that interest. Give people a reason to care about what your offering weather it's a product or yourself as a person. Understand them and give them a reason based off their interests and passions to care about what your offering. Everything in the universe, connects and compares to each other, all you have to do is figure out away to present the connection of what you have to offer with the person your offering it to. Find the reasons in your offerings, which relate to the persons situation in life. Use those reason to attract them and empower to express care for what you have to offer in benefit for them-selves.
Express Confidence and Power
2) Show confidence and power in what you offer them, as a person is drawn to power and anything and anyone who expresses it, as if they are the person they want to be. The confidence shows power in that most are draw to because the power is what makes them feel certain about their own choices and visions for success. For example, imagine you see Bill Gates walking down the street showing off a new product, the confidence he had and passion has created power for everyone else to be drawn to because everyone wants to be around the ones who have power and knowledge and much of it. Even if the knowledge is still developing, it’s the confidence that expresses it’s truth seeming to everyone else as the reality. And everyone likes the reality when it’s powerful and pure to success.
Express Care and Support
3) Be the person you want to care for you or your offer. Agree with what they say and flow gently with the conversation as if you support them and in everything they do. But also be yourself as if you are their friend. Everyone likes comfort and support, and if you’re comforting to them, they will do so to you. But as always in any situation toward success, you must first put in success of effort to get out success of results. Give support and comfort and you’ll get back just that.
Express Value and Respect
4) Show value in yourself. People subconsciously have respect for the people who have respect for them-selves, as it shows value in them-selves that they know they have. Express confidence in your knowledge as you show that you believe what you say is true. But also be opened minded to understanding more allowing what others might say, to be true as well.
5) Agree with most things that others say and what they believe. Be a teammate, being the one who they want on their team. Be a part of them, almost like a mirror that talks back in higher power taking their side. Everyone likes a person who takes their side and agrees. Even though you may not agree, you must agree, to change their thought to what’s true and what you want them to care about. Perspective is huge, and it's all about knowing how to make others see you and what you offer, the best it comes by changing others perspectives to see it the way you want. Agreeing is one of the biggest steps to doing that, making the connection in making them care for you and your beliefs. Then being able then to change the way they see and think about you and what you have to offer in it's best. Be a member of their society, the person who they want to be long time friends with. People love when they have the support and friend that believes in them, on their side. They will agree with you, if you agree with them, making them as if they are like a close friend. And most close friends, care about each other.